if you need to cry... it's okay. letting out emotion is good. it lets the heart release some tension. it allows you to cope with overwhelming feelings. it is good. crying doesn't make you weak. if anything it makes you strong. strong people can share their emotions with others. be strong. don't be afraid. you are not the only one who has ever needed a shoulder. life is meant to make you cry. so go ahead. it's okay. cry if you have to.